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Far Too Long!!  

XHamburgDave 80M
272 posts
10/28/2020 6:40 am
Far Too Long!!


Far Too Long!! Now this statement could apply to many things, the length of my Penis perhaps? Highly unlikely lol

No I was reminded by our blogging friend Jules, that I have been remiss in posting here, and for that I must sincerely apologise!

What else has been going on for Far Too Long? Well Covid19 for one thing, it has affected lots of our friends and fellow bloggers! I send my deepest condolences and love to all that have lost family or been personally affected by this disease
Early on when the Pandemic first hit the UK, I received a letter from the Government stating that due my age and underlying health problems I should shield myself, stay stay at home etc. I share the house with my , so I am not missing out on supplies! However apart from on here, I am really missing social contact, I miss visiting with my Grandkids

Before the pandemic arrived, I had been diagnosed with early stage Prostate Cancer, my specialist appointments at the hospital have been either made by phone, or cancelled! I am not in pain, and everything still works, but again it has been going on for Far Too Long!!

I haven't had a cuddle or sex for Far Too Long, that of course has been exacerbated by the pandemic lockdown. Even if I did get an offer on here, what do I do?, break out go and meet a potential carrier?? I would be grateful for any advice you can give me my friends

Now my complaining and moaning about my situation has also gone on for Far Too Long!!

Wishing all my Friends a Happy Hump Day >>! Have Fun and Stay Safe



Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


XHamburgDave 80M
10466 posts
10/28/2020 6:41 am

comment >>!

Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser"


Paulxx001 67M
22642 posts
10/28/2020 9:35 am

Good title...
Take care. ❗😎


Tmptrzz 61F  
107039 posts
10/28/2020 11:24 am

Oh my friend I am so sorry to hear your having these health issues, and with the Virus it's just making things worse.. I hope you are able to get in to see your doctor soon and get your health issues taken care of as this is a very serious thing.

I wish you all the best my friend, and please stay safe and take care as my thoughts and prayers are with you my friend..

I hope you enjoy the rest of your evening..

Seduce the mind and see what a wonderful adventure the body will take you on..


lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
11/12/2020 10:36 am

i so understand...
normally i am a bit more carefree about my sexuality and have been an acctive swinger.

but HERE and in the NOW i don't want to be in a swing scene with lots of people at parties.

it's been tough to screen and find a regular.
i had a lot of hope on the 30 YO.
a good blog friend suggested i contact the 30 YO to see if he can get over the embarrassment of what appears to be either an erection loss or an premature ejaculation. things were going so well til that happened!
XO!

happy to see you are blogging again. thanks for the heads up on the new posts!


XHamburgDave replies on 11/12/2020 11:43 am:
Do you really want the 30 YO, or just sex M? Believe me I totally understand the need, and after so long, I am sure I would have anxiety too! However as sweet as he may have sounded, or how big he might have been (Magnum?), seriously no contact since? XO!

lunchandconvo 53F  
4034 posts
11/12/2020 12:33 pm

the options have been very bad this time around.

i'm not desperate for sex. if i really WANT sex i can have a private swingers party set up in ATLANTA. there is someone in the local swing scene who knows me so if i was desperate i could easily get on the private party invite list.

but as discussed with COVID a party scene is not something i opt to do.

the bloggie pal and i discussed allowing the 30 YO one text follow up. but. no. i'm not desperate for him...

i haven't had a lifestyle party in years. there are men who haven't had sex with me in years who still inquire...

this time around in SAVANNAH i'm getting people who don't match up to what i am looking for physically or as a sex mate. going from 40 to 50 has made that much of a difference. i passed on the guy who wanted to lick me all over. not my thing. the guy who somehow doesn't understand how racist it is that he keeps sending me photos of himself eating ramen soup. of the nutjob babbling about me being ASIAN but he lives in NY. i don't get as many messages on this account as my last one. i've considered if i should use a different site. but still blog here.

i do appreciate your frank input and friendship. XO!


XHamburgDave replies on 11/12/2020 1:36 pm:
I was slightly worried after I sent my last response, that I may have offended you, glad I haven't.

I've been a swinger, or really in the lifestyle at all! I lived, no strike that, existed in a vanilla marriage for 30 years until I moved to Germany. Suddenly I had a freedom, which I never had before, suffice to say my marriage didn't survive my first affair there.
Being 59 and having the attention of a sexy 39 YO, did wonders for my self esteem, and sex life XO!

XHamburgDave replies on 11/12/2020 1:38 pm:
Sorry that should have read "Never been a Swinger" XO!

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