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Just be honest, but polite 3/15/2004
The best thing to do when saying "No Thanks"
is to be honest. Tell the person that you are not interested.
Be nice about it, but be honest. You don't have to give
a lot of details, just say "Thanks, but you are not
interested." If they write back you can always block
them. That way you don't get into a back and forth email
war.
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Enough already 3/7/2004
Enough Already
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When we ladies are at the swingers clubs and politely say
"no thanks" It doesn't mean we are bitches...simply
that your not our type...or maybe were just not in the mood.
Try not to take it personal!!
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Have a little courtesy please! 3/6/2004
Don't you hate it when you wink, get one back, but then
never get a response from the other party after senging
messages?
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If all you want is to look at pictures on the profiles, fine.
At least let the other parties know that's all you want.
If not interested, at least have the courtesy to say "No
thanks". No hard feelings, but at least respond.
For some of us, this is a ...
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Reply to "NO THANKS" 3/5/2004
Fairly new here, but already noticed severe lack of "No
Thanks", or any other response to attempted contacts.
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Common courtesy is a lost art.
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have a little common sense 3/2/2004
The main thing I get when a guy contacts me is "call
my cell" or "give me your phone number."
If I wanted to induce a conversation via phone, I'll
call my mother. If you really want us ladies to reply, try
actually saying something when you send us messages. I
automatically delete anyone who only says "contact
me for sex at xxx-xxx-xxxx." This may be an adult meeting
site, but it's not a ...
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Spring Break 2004, the guest 3/1/2004
(Continued)
As the elevator started to move, I noticed that he had noticed
my swimsuit sticking out beneath the towel that I had wrapped
around it. Smiling at him, I watched as he examined me closer,
taking note of my erect nipples and full breasts straining
against the slightly wet robe that I had around me. Hearing
the elevator ding again, I watched as the door opened behind
him. ...
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Sick of lil teens being used. 2/28/2004
Hey i know alot of girls growing up and im only 22 now and i
have heard at least 5 or 6 times where they were basiclly
by an older guy about my age. I hate that i cant stand
it. If a woman says no even in a small faint no.... she deserves
the respect for you to back up a minute and talk about whats
going on, instead of her. They try and play it off
as not but it is. She might say ...
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43 Votes
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Did you not read my profile??? 2/27/2004
OK let me make this clear...I am not tryin to be rude by stating
what type of guy I am interested in. I personally simply
choose to date, sleep, or talk to a certain race of men. It
doesn't mean I have limited myself. Also, when I say
I want dealings with someone my age, I'm sorry if your
30 years older...that's not my fault. Take that up
with your mom and dad. I will respond to all ...
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How do you say no thanks?? 2/25/2004
How do you tell someone who has emailed you about getting
together no thanks without hurting there feelings? I mean
say you chat a while and you meet and decide no this isn't
what I want.
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Dont do it 2/21/2004
I see and understand the point all you ladies make about
not being able to respond to all the emails you get from us
guys, as I know there are many more guys on this site than
ladies. And I will agree with you that you are probably getting
many emails from guys that are not a match to you, hundreds
or even thousands of miles away, or are not at all what you
are looking for. Maybe I am an ...
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RUDE GIRLS RESPONSE 2/21/2004
my first day on Local Date i recieved an email from a very scarey
subhuman. he lives close by. he is subliterate. it scared
me badly. i immediately blocked all further emails, but
i was shaken. guys be careful what you say to the girls, start
slowly, some of us have had bad experiences. in real life
we are always on display, it can be fun, it can be a drag; if
a situation gets out of hand we deal ...
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Let someone know.... 2/16/2004
I only have a few complaints about the people on this site,
and I hope that it is a small percent of people on here that
I speak of. I get a little anoyed by the people who say that
they are looking for something and then when someone takes
the time to write to them they never reply back even if ti
is to say no thanks, please have some consideration for
the other people who take the time ...
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I have tried but it doesnt work 2/15/2004
I have tried many times to be nice to those I am not intreasted
in, by sending back a message saying "Thank you but
I am not intreastred" ....but some men(and woman)
are soooo rude and send back an email cussing you out calling
you all out your name because you said you where not intrested.........So
someone please tell me why be nice and send a reply, when
you get that reaction from men, ...
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How can people say no without being mean 2/13/2004
Sorry to say this but it's not easy. With today's
online world and the fact that you probably won't see
the person or even hear from them makes for a very rude awakening
at times.
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Very Simple 2/13/2004
Guys know when a chick is into them, and when the chick is
into them 'no' usually means 'yes',
and in the case when she actually means 'no', just
wait for some sudden use of painful physical violence from
her, and that'll be the real sign, and girls dont be
bashful about hitting a dude as hard as you want if he's
not getting the idea
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How it should be done 2/12/2004
I don't know why it is so hard for people to write a note
and say "no thanks". Although I have met a lot
of very nice people on here, there a quite a number of unresponded
emails. I realize the women get a huge number of replies
from men but it isn't difficult to say Thanks but no
thanks in a return note. I try to make a point of responding
to people whether it is a yes or a no.
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why do women make such a big deal about casual sex?? 2/11/2004
Why do women make such a big deal about sex?? Most studies
have shown that they even enjoy sex much more than men yet
most of them dont want to just have casual sex and have all
the fun they can. i wonder why
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men are at a disadvantage here (woman's perspective) 2/6/2004
after being on Local Date for just one month, i can see that men are
at a great disadvantage...the number of women (at least
women who are not trying to redirect you to a pay site) must
be outnumbered by the men by a huge ratio. i think women that
appear to be "real" from their profiles probably
get an enormous amount of mail...i know i do. for me, part
of the reason for being a member here is ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
57 Votes
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Just Say No Thanks 1/31/2004
I have had a few women, and couples respond to my ad on Local Date.
I always, as most men do, respond almost immediatly. Only
to NOT get any furthur e-mails or reply's. What is with
that? If you are just players, why not just sit back and masterbate
to the pics or something rather than giving someone a possible
hope of hooking up and then just let them hang, in wonderment
if the reply's got ...
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What's wrong with just telling a person " No Thanks!" 1/31/2004
I get so tired of writing to people on here, only to never
get a response back. I'm a big girl, so I realise that
not everyone I'm interested in is going to be interested
in me, but can't you at least have the common couteousy
to say, "no thaks!?" At least then, I'm
not left wondering if your lack of response may have been
due to a glich in this site ( it does happen, you know!), and
you ...
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Let's Examine All Sides of This Issue 1/24/2004
I understand the frustration about not getting replies
to email from all the articles, primarily from men or couples.
However, there is honestly another side to the issue. Many
of us females receive numerous emails per day, and cannot
possibly reply to all of them. As standard members, we only
get so many replies per day, also. Not to mention that there
are a number of men who have a ...
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A womans choice 1/21/2004
On behalf of the "decent" men and yes ladies
most are I would like to say in my life I have never slept with
a woman I felt would regret it later. Saying no never came
into it, a man knows if he is forcing the issue. If a woman
will regret it then even if she consents its a lousy thing
to do.
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Older couples, with unattractive men 1/18/2004
Hey there....
I'm just wondering if everyone else has trouble finding
couples in which both people are attractive. My boyfriend
and I are both attractive and would like to find the same.
We are both young, but are open to older couples. The problem
is, that the females in the couples are usually fine, but
the males are not. It is the main reason we end up not going
ahead with most of the ...
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Common Courtesy 1/17/2004
If someone takes the time and shows the interest in you to
send you an email or a network invitation, it is only 'common
courtesy' to reply. A yes, a no thank you, a response
of any kind is fine, so long as it is a polite response. Unfortunately,
common courtesy seems to be quite uncommon these days.
ps. Please note that this does not apply to emails or invites
from people who can not seem ...
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Saying no thanks isn't always easy. 1/16/2004
I don't think a lot of women are being snobbish. It seems
so rude to say no thanks, not interested. It would seem that
if a woman doesn't reply, that is her answer. Sometimes,
when I have replied in such a way, men will get angry, so I
think it depends on the man and there is no way of knowing
which type he is.
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i'll pass 1/15/2004
i went to a party, one time, i met a really hot guy.We chatted
for some time, and one thing led to another.Oh, yea and
the party so happened to be at his place.Well, there we
were in his room have awesome sex, when the door opened
, and there stood a big guy with his cock hanging out.the
guy i was in bed with went on to tell me he shares the best things
with his bestfriend.well i was turned ...
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108 Votes
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its webcams too 1/12/2004
re the article on the lady who says that men leave there cell
phones numbers on emails, well it also happens if they
know that you have a web cam here in the uk.many times my msn
has flashed to say that a contact wants to speak to me and
when i click on to them they always invite themselfs to view
my webcam.to me this is damm right rude and pushy you should
never invite yourself to view a ...
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A Simple "No Thank You" Will Do! 1/8/2004
We don't know how other people feel about this but,
the one thing that agravates the hell out of both of us are
the countless number of couples and single women especially
who don't answer their mail. If you have a profile or
personal ad posted seeking the company of others, the polite
thing to do is respond to mail you get in response to your
profile or ad.
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We get a lot ...
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Do unto others as you would have them do unto you?? 1/6/2004
OK...having read the many articles relative to common
courtesy, in saying "no thank you", I have to
add the above title.
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It is called the "Golden Rule." And it works!
Most the time.
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Having said that, I do agree with the people who have had
the negative experience of tying to be polite, only having
the recipient come back to argue the point, or worse, use ...
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Politeness both ways 1/3/2004
I have chatting with several people on Local Date. Most are very
nice. Some, however, are really nasty once they find out
you aren't exactly what they want.
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My profile clearly states that I am married and looking
for a discrete affair and I am up front with anyone with whom
I chat. But more then once, a woman has decided to berate
me for it. To lecture me on immorality seems odd, ...
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