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CptRk82 41 / M
"In search of a friend with benefits"
Chicago, Illinois, United States
 
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CptRk82 41/M
Chicago, Illinois
Introduction
I am looking for a consistent friend with benefits. Someone I can meet up with a couple of times per month for sex. Someone who, like myself, is in a relationship where their sex life is grossly inadequate and is in need of supplementing. Or, in the case of a couple, someone who is looking to explore fantasies outside of a standard M-F pairing. I don't want to change either of our situations. I just need to spice up my sex life. I am also looking to fulfill a number of fantasies and am open to finding either a woman (preferably attached/ married) or a couple. I had a bi experience many years ago and it's something I am open to exploring further with the right couple. Note, I am fully vaccinated/ boosted against COVID-19 and am only interested in meeting up with others who are also fully vaccinated. This is completely non-negotiable. Go get yourselves vaccinated. I have a dad bod physique and while I am working on getting back into better shape, I know that's going to take time. I am decent looking and clean cut. I am fairly adventurous (I've met people from AFF in person in the past, which I think is pretty adventurous), easy going and funny. I think I'm pretty easy to talk to and am willing to answer any questions you may have. UPDATE: I will be traveling to New Orleans for work in early December. I am hoping to find a woman and/ or couple to get together with for a one time encounter (or maybe two time encounter, depending on our schedules and how good the sex is the first time).

My Ideal Person My ideal friend with benefits has a naughty, dirty mind and an ability to express her/ their desires, both verbally, physically and via written communication. There is nothing hotter than someone who knows what they want sexually and can clearly convey that to their partner(s). Confidence is also really important. If you believe you are sexy and act that way, I will believe it too.

For a woman- I like curvy women. Age doesn't matter, race doesn't really matter, just be adventurous and fun. Discretion is very much appreciated (married would be great), as is a willingness to try new things, particularly kinky things. It goes without saying please be disease and drug free. Availability during the daytime is also a big plus.

For a couple- I really want to find a bisexual couple to explore with. I have some pretty naughty fantasies with couples, but I do have some pretty firm limits that we can discuss. I am very cognizant of my partners limits and am willing to adhere to any limits you want put in place. Age doesn't matter, race doesn't matter either. I've got a few extra pounds and I would prefer it if the couple was closer to my body type than in gym-rat shape. As I don't have much experience in the bi threesome arena, I would like to find a couple that is willing to help a newbie explore.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
AC/DC

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Ability to be discreet

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
No

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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Information
  • 41 / male
  • Chicago, Illinois, United States
Sexual Orientation:
Bi-curious / Prefer not to say
Looking For:  Women or Couples (man/woman)
Birthdate: April 1, 1982
Relocate?: No
Marital Status: Attached
Height: 5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type: A little extra padding
Smoking: I'm a non-smoker
Drinking: I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs: I don't use drugs
Education: Master's degree
Race: Caucasian
Religion: Atheist
Have Children: No
Want Children: No
Male Endowment: Average/Average
Circumcised: Yes
Speaks: English
Hair Color: Brown
Hair Length: Short
Eye Color: Blue
Glasses or Contacts: Glasses