I'm a grad school student that is looking for fun, eventually in the bedroom but first in the real world. I need a connection before I can hook up. I like exploring the outdoors, hike in all seasons, climb things, and go on road trips. My schooling is very important to me, and it is focused around helping others. Needless to say, I'm a giver. This is also true in bed. I tend to be little bit on the subby side, and like to be told what to do, but I can be dominant as well. I love everything having to do with anal, if it's done on me or by me. I like the idea of having a dom/sub relationship, but that requires a lot of trust, and I wouldn't want to jump into that right away until I felt comfortable with my partner. I'm very open minded and will try anything twice.

My Ideal Person I would like someone that is experienced enough to know what they want, and can communicate it. I tend to be attracted to women who are queer, or at least interested in exploring their sexual natures. I'd be open to exploring something with the right guy, and have always had a fantasy about being involved with a couple. Honestly, I don't have high hopes for this site, but am reserving judgement. Maybe something amazing will come of this!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A store dressing room, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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