What happens when a dominant man questions his reality and ultimately realizes women rule? He turns to the internet to find a special woman to spoil as his princess. Or Queen... I am S, an early 40s white male who is naturally protective, assertive, highly educated and, in short, what most folks consider an alpha male. i'm 5'9", strongly built at 215 pounds, with thick arms and very strong legs. I live and work in the Portland area, am highly educated, a professional and well respected as an assertive, caring traditional appearing man. And i seek Female guidance, Female Leadership, and a strong Female presence in public to even out (or assert dominance over) my strong male presence with the understanding that my sexuality would be Hers. i seek a place to bloom into somthing better, under a Woman's guidance, leadership and direction. i understand my penis should be locked up, for male urges cause destruction and harm to relationships. Female Control helps keep things even. i accept my primary sexual role is as an oral servant (or otherwise, at Her discretion), believe that facesitting is central to a healthy relationship, and believe a Woman should be licked clean, and often. i love the art of Namio Harukawa. i accept a cuckold relationship and even seek it out. Queens of Spades and women who prefer BBC are especially attractive to me. i'm DDF, a non-smoker, light weed, and a social drinker. i do not have , have one dog, and am in all respects but this a traditional white American male who hunts, hikes, fishes, camps and lifts weights. So, this is what happens when a traditional, alpha American male realizes women rule. I turned to the internet to hopefully find a Woman ready to take Her throne. I also regularly travel to Tokyo and Singapore for work.

My Ideal Person Feminine, sweet and aware of her worth.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Urolagnia (Water Sports/Urine), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Cross Dressing, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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