I'm comfortable with who I am, and I like men who are comfortable with confident women. I'm looking for friends; I'm NOT interested in a fling with a married man. I'm open, honest, and direct, respect boundaries, and expect nothing less in return. For professional reas, discretion is paramount.

My Ideal Person I'm attracted to sensual, adventurous, sophisticated men who are witty, direct, and honest; men who don’t insult my intelligence; men who are not complacent; men who are as comfortable with spontaneity as with advance planning, and as open to assertive bedroom or public behavior or to special gestures as I am. A well-written e-mail or well-spoken approach piques my interest.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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