Another Update: I have not been successful meeting anyone here. While all bellow is still true, I want to try to find my fantasy relationship now. I would love to find a woman who wants to live life and travel with me. She does not have to have a job, car, or money. She just has an open heart. I am not into drugs and only drink one in a great while, would like the same. I do not discriminate to race, disability, age or class.  Update: I have found everyone is looking for the same thing. We all use words like open, honest, and intelligent. I believe, we all want that. I sat down and thought about what makes me different and try to give you more of a sense of who I am. All the stuff above and below is still true, but I wanted to add that I like the slow paced life. I don't always have to be doing something (not that I can't be with a per who always has to be on the run), staying in bed a little longer is great. Don't mistake that for laziness or tardiness(can't think of a better word), because I believe in always being 5 minutes early. I can travel with a plan or just see what happens (I like that better). Bars are fun, but only every once in a while. I don't have to drink to have fun (I am the happiest drunk you will ever meet), in fact I only partake in alcohol about once a month on average. Everyone talks about good communication. I would take it a step further, I picture my special lady to haveg a connection to the point that it is all in the eyes. Words are very important, but there can be so much more. We all have thoughts of what makes us happy, but it is my belief that we do not pursue them enough. You want to fish everyday, buy a lakefront house... I am trying the best I can to live like that. I am also looking for a long term relationship leading to marriage, not a one night stand. Please read on, I know the writing does not flow very well. I am shy, it is hard for me to meet people. Once I get to know someone, they will find I am very open and honest. I am a very service oriented per. I feel good when I can do stuff for other people. I like doing many things, including, but not limited to : camping, hiking, driving, boating, traveling, watching movies, ect. I am looking for a long term relationship. Just being friends will work too. I like independent and intelligent women who are looking for someone that will listen and care. Honesty is the most important part of any relationship. I am retired and living comfortably on my retirement pay. I own a lake front house in Glennie, MI but winter in Florida. I love to travel and willing to go anywhere with little warning. My perfect match can summer in MI but for the right per I can move anywhere. I am mister average all around except in the fact I want to please and treat women right. I am willing for one night stands, but would love to meet that one right per. Couples are welcome also. Long lasting friendships are my goal. I am single and very much looking. I would LOVE to meet an intelligent, beautiful, fun, laid back, open, sexy woman who likes to travel and who likes staying at home. As I have a lakefront house, water activities are a plus (fishing, skiing, jetski, and just spending time on the lake). I love movies, so cuddling is a must. On those cold winter days I love siting in the hot tub, but I also love playing in the snow with Badger(my dog). I work on cars as a hobby and I guess home ownership is a hobby too. I also have a motorhome and spend my winters in Florida. This type of travel is great. The motorhome also makes it easy to move anywhere for a chance the date the right per. I have nothing that ties me to one place. I know a few things I don't want in a woman (I hate to be negative). Swearing every other word is a big turn off, so is smoking(but I wouldn't rule someone out because of this). Creating drama in life is not fun, I usually sit back and think "How high school." I don't want to live the rest of my life with someone who wont communicate. Words, body language, eye contact are all important to good communication. Money is a big topic in relationships, it is easy for me. "What is mine is yours" is my attitude. I want to be in a relationship where: We can tell each other anything and everything. Trust each other unconditionally(no jealousy). I will give everything I have to offer, I want the same in turn. Since this also a sex site, I will admit I am willing to try just about anything. The only limitations are: I am straight, Pain is not sexual to me (causing or taking). I also find it hard to talk dirty. Most anything else can be negotiated (Tie me up, in a car, hottub, oral, group)...

My Ideal Person I find beauty in all women. I do not sleep with just anybody, an open and honest relationship must be forged first (still can happen fast). This is easy, just don't lie to me and be my friend and can take just a minute to figure that out.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Kiss

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
An older woman seduces me. We have that awkward moment where
we are sitting together and looking at each other. She leaves
the room and re-enters a short time later with a friend and
scarves. They tie me to the couch and I already hard. They
begin to strip me and each other. From there a free for all
with me still tied up.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Massage

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Boy, I don't know of one I haven't fantasized about.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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