I am an intelligent, highly educated, introspective per. I'm a college teacher (off and on) and an analyst by nature, but I also like and do lots of normal stuff - baseball, grilling on weekends, things like that. I've been monogamous for too long; I'm anxious to find a woman or women with whom to have fun, both as friends and as adult playmates. I'm married; my wife and I let each other have relationships outside our marriage, but always act with the other's knowledge; I'm not cheating or sneaking out. \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\***WARNING*** Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies or projects - You DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

My Ideal Person I am attracted to strong, intelligent women who know who they are and what they think; a woman who voices her opinions, thinks deeply about the world around her, and isn't interested in fitting into society's idea of what she ought to be is a woman who immediately gets my attention and interest. I'd like to find a woman who appreciates a man of intelligence and a relationship that's satisfying on both a physical and an intellectual level; to spend time with a woman who is attractive to me both physically (I'm am here looking for sex, after all) and intellectually, someone who'd like to have fun with her body and her mind.

Since I'm fitting this relationship into the context of my existing family life, I'm essentially looking for a friends-with-benefits type of relationship. The 'friends' part is very important to me; I hope to spend time with this person, not just have sex with her.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
White Stripes, Jet, Raconteurs, Arcade Fire, Muse

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A swimming pool or hot tub, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Slave/Master, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Touching/Caressing

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Emily Procter - not the gun chick thing, but that her characters
are intelligent and strong women. That's very sexy.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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